There comes a moment in everyone’s life when the noise quiets down and you’re left alone with your thoughts, wondering if you’ve lost your way. Maybe it’s after another failed plan, a dream that didn’t work out, or a season that feels painfully still. You start asking, Who am I really? What am I even doing with my life? I’ve met people who looked perfectly fine on the outside but were quietly wrestling with these questions. Some thought they’d already missed their turn in life; others feared they were too far gone to begin again. But here’s the thing about self-discovery, it doesn’t have a deadline. Finding yourself isn’t always a dramatic moment of awakening. Sometimes, it’s in the small decisions, choosing to rest when you’ve been running, forgiving yourself for not knowing better, saying no to things that don’t serve your peace anymore. It’s the gentle unfolding that happens when you stop rushing to become who everyone expects you to be and start listening to your own voi...
I remember a season in my life when I kept holding on to something that had clearly ended. It wasn’t easy to admit it, but deep down, I knew I was trying to fix what no longer wanted to be whole. I replayed moments, conversations, and memories , hoping something would change if I just tried harder. But nothing did. Days turned into weeks, and weeks into months. I kept telling myself, “Maybe it’ll get better,” but the truth was, I was holding on to what God was asking me to release. I was afraid of what would happen if I let go, afraid of the silence, the emptiness, and the unknown that might follow. Then one evening, while journaling, I came across a verse that changed everything: “ Be still and know that I am God. ” It was a gentle reminder that I didn’t need to have all the answers. I just needed to trust that God knew what He was doing. Letting go didn’t happen overnight. Some days I cried. Other days I smiled and pretended I was fine. But slowly, I began to see that peace does...