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HELPING A CHILD BREAK OUT FROM THE STING CALLED FEAR.

 Helping a child overcome fear or anxiety requires patience, understanding, and a supportive approach. Here are some steps you can take: Listen and Validate: First and foremost, listen to your child's fears and concerns without judgment. Let them know that it's okay to feel scared or anxious and that their feelings are valid. Provide Reassurance: Offer comfort and reassurance. Let your child know that you're there to protect and support them.  Gradual Exposure: If the fear is related to a specific situation or object, consider gradual exposure. Start with small, manageable steps to help them become more comfortable with what they fear. Teach Coping Strategies: Teach your child age-appropriate coping strategies. Breathing exercises, positive self-talk, and distraction techniques can be helpful. Positive Role Modeling: Children often learn by observing their parents or caregivers. Be a positive role model by demonstrating how to manage fear or anxiety effectively. Maintain Ro
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THE CHRONICLES.

 THE CHRONICLES. In the past few years, I have not been consistent in writing on this Blog.  I have been occupied with a lot of things and in the process I have come to realize that growth is the ability to take responsibility and also be able to balance every area of your life.  I also got distracted in the process from the primary purpose but Thank God for God! 🤭( I mean this). I have come to realize that without a clear purpose, you will keep changing directions, jobs, relationships, or other externals-hoping each change will settle the confusion or fill the emptiness in your heart. The point is that it's in human nature to get distracted so you keep moving from one place to another without direction. You think, Maybe this time it will be different, but it doesn't solve your real problem lack of focus and purpose. The Bible says, "Don't live carelessly, unthinkingly. Make sure you understand what the Master wants."What the Master wants is for us to live solely

OVERCOME THE FEAR AND TAKE ACTION

   Do you know why most people don't take action in their lives?     Because they are afraid of the unknown. After all, nobody likes things they're not familiar with. We hate when things don't go according to plan.   When unexpected events make us find new ways to do things.  Maybe it's an important decision you have to make without knowing all the details.   Maybe you need to get something done without really knowing how to do it. Or maybe it's a worldwide crisis never seen before like last year's.   It doesn't matter how well prepared you are for these things...   There will always be a moment where these situations will catch you by surprise.  It's just inevitable.  All those situations make us feel uncertain...  They paralyze us and stop us from going after our goals.   And what happens to those who let their fear of the unknown take over?   Well, they never get to live to their fullest potential.  They never get to do anything extraordinary.  They m

PURPOSE DISCOVERY

   It's a new month and I believed you have been doing amazingly well, I will use this opportunity to wish you the best of this new month.   Let's dive to what we have today, one of Myles Munroe quote's say"Until purpose is discover, existence has no meaning, for purpose is the source of fulfillment." You must understand that until you discover your purpose as a person that's when your life make sense.   In the journey of life, you will get to stage  where you ask yourself the 'Wh"questions. You are really eager to know "why", "what"and where  you are heading to in life.    These questions ring in your mind consciously or unconsciously. Discovering your purpose as a person requires something from you and also you must know that to fulfill purpose you need to know who created you, when you know who created you, it will be easy for you to discover your purpose of existence.  God who created you, created you for a specific reason. He

WHAT PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT REALLY ENTAILS .

  In my  last blog post, I shared some tips on how you can build your self confidence,  in which one of it was personal development.    Today, I will be shedding  more light on what personal development entails.Take a seat and let's journey together in becoming your best self.    Personal development is all about you, it's  all about you becoming a better person! Let me say it is the collection of deliberate activities geared towards the betterment of one's life. It's more of a personal drive for growth and improvement.   There are some areas which you can develop your self, I will be listing the areas ; 🏷 SPIRITUALITY DEVELOPMENT : It covers the ability to revolve with an invisible one, how much you are able to develop your spiritual life because most timewe focus more on the physical and neglect the spiritual. This is the aspect of personal development  that launches you in a realm beyond physical. Your ability to know how much you are able to study the word of God.

Build Your Self Confidence In 2021

 Hello there!  It's of a great privilege writing this to you, let's dive into what we have today. 2020 has been a tough year over the years, most people had their plans but  got shattered. Most persons lost their self confidence due to the fear  they indulge in themselves.   Building healthy self confidence must be your priority this 2021 because it gives you  drive to do more.  Here, I will be giving you tips to build your self confidence ; 1. LOOK  AT WHAT  YOU  HAVE  ACHIEVED : To build self confidence you've to start looking at what you have achieved and stop looking at what you have not achieved. Most of the reason we lost our self confidence is because we always think we are  failure, since, we have not achieved  some things. Shift your mind from your failure and start looking at what you have achieved. When you do that you believe more in yourself.  2. DISCOVER YOUR POTENTIAL AND HARNESS IT: God created each person with a potential you just have to discover it yours